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Normal canine social behavior is surprisingly compatible with human social behavior because we share many social patterns. However, there are also significant differences, and if we think of dogs as little furry people, it leads to confusion which breaks down the bond, and decreases the joy of companionship. For example, many people like to "share" their food, and mistakenly reward gradually more obnoxious begging behavior.

Punishing the dog when finding the garbage raided or the house soiled seems natural to people. But punishment after the fact simply confuses the dog and reduces its trust and respect for the person. The correct response is as follows: Don't let the dog see you clean up (pay attention to) the mess. Then, make it impossible to access the garbage, or start over with a reward-based house training program.

People commonly punish submissive gestures such as submissive urination or excessive licking. Since the dog was doing these things to reduce perceived aggressors, the aggressive punishment confuses the dog who tries harder by doing more submissive urination or licking. The correct response to submissive urination is to ignore the dog at greetings until it is calm enough to sit. If he is licking excessively, interrupt the licking by requesting a SIT, then give positive attention for the sitting, while avoiding the deft tongue.

Rough play like slapping, wrestling or play boxing is fun for some (usually male) humans. However, this confuses the dog to think that aggression toward people is ok, resulting in a dog more likely to become aggressive toward people later in life.

Humans often come home, find a mess and make the mistake of saying COME, then punishing the dog when he comes to the scene of the previous crime. The dog confuses the command COME with the punishment, and stops coming when called.

Giving a dog what it wants after an objectionable behavior such as whining, barking or scratching at the door confuses the dog to think that this is what they should do to get to come inside. Then if it doesn't work, the dog escalates until it becomes punished for something it thought you wanted it to do.

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